Traveling with kids can certainly be an adventure, but it's usually not the relaxing vacation we dream of. Unlike adults, kids don't take a break from their regular routines. From long flights to car rides, waiting in lines, and exploring new destinations, keeping them entertained and engaged can be quite a challenge.

Why is traveling with kids more of a trip than a vacation?

When you're traveling with kids, you're not just lounging on a beach or exploring a new city. You're also in charge of keeping them safe, fed, and entertained. You're constantly on the go, trying to balance their needs and interests with yours. You probably have to adjust to accommodate their naps, meals, and playtime, or deal with the unexpected because… kids.

WAIT! It’s not all bad news. When you reset your expectations a little bit, traveling with kids can be a blast. If there’s one way to make a vacation feel smoother and easier, it’s making sure everyone gets downtime. Screens can help, but we like to save those for the early morning wake-ups…

When my family goes on vacation, we always have a mid-day quiet time for everyone.

One of the best ways to make traveling with kids more manageable is to encourage them to play independently. That way, they can occupy themselves while you take a break, read a book, or have a conversation with your partner.

Here are four tips to help you make independent play happen on the go:

Pack a variety of portable lightweight toys and games: To keep your kids entertained on long flights or car rides, pack a range of small, easy-to-carry toys and games. Mini animals, small blocks, and tiny vehicles can provide hours of fun and creativity. Puzzle books, coloring books, and activity books can also keep them engaged.
Encourage self-directed play by providing open-ended materials: Instead of giving your kids specific tasks or projects, try providing open-ended materials that allow them to use their imagination and creativity. Mini play dough, stickers, post-it notes, and tiny notebooks and pencils can spark their curiosity and inspire them to come up with their own games and stories.
Don't forget their favorites: While novelty items can be exciting, don't forget to pack your kids' favorite books, stuffed animals, or toys. These familiar items can provide comfort and security in new and unfamiliar environments, and help them feel more relaxed.
To help your kids know where to play, set up a designated play space in your hotel room. You can empty a low drawer or repurpose a towel basket to house toys in an inviting way. By creating a sense of order and structure, your kids will feel more comfortable diving into independent play.

Remember, the goal of traveling with kids is not to have a perfect vacation, but to create lasting memories and experiences together. So, don't worry too much about the small stuff. Below you’ll find a list of our go-to items for independent play on the go.