What I used, how I set it up, and why I do it this way every year.

Have you ever tried to decorate cookies with young kids?

Not the sweet, curated Instagram version, the real-life version.
The one where someone’s crying, someone’s licking frosting off the table, and you’re wondering why you didn’t just hand them a candy cane and call it a day.

Every year, I think about baking cookies from scratch with my kids. I imagine the bonding, the warm smells, the joy… And then I laugh and laugh because I could NEVER. I’m not a great baker; I’m terrible at baking, and my kids don’t need a mom who is stressed and trying to be perfect. They want fun, autonomy, and… sugar!!

This book is for you if you’ve ever thought:
What if we just… slowed down? What if play is the thing that builds everything else?

but i'm bored

WHAT’S IN THIS POST:

– The truth about “fun” holiday baking
– A real-life cookie station setup that works (and keeps your patience intact)
– Why individual sprinkle trays are the unsung hero of December
– How to adjust for toddlers, preschoolers, and grade school kids
– TL;DR checklist at the bottom

So here’s what I do instead:

I buy break-and-bake sugar cookie dough.
I roll it out (this year with a jar from the recycling bin, because, of course, the rolling pin is missing).

I bake the cookies ahead and set everything else up while they’re at school.

Some years, I’ve used the Trader Joe’s kit and skipped baking altogether. No notes.

WHY I SET IT UP THIS WAY:

Cookie decorating is exciting, which is fun until it’s not.
Excitement with no structure leads to:

– Grabbing
– Gobbling
– Frosting tears
– Someone screaming about the green sprinkles

So I set it up the way I set up play, and here’s how that clicked for me..

THE PRESCHOOL PARTY THAT CHANGED EVERYTHING:

Years ago, I sat at a preschool birthday party at a bakery where the kids were decorating cupcakes. And I was honestly stunned; no one was running wild. Every kid was focused. No one was crying. I started mentally taking notes.

Turns out? The party hosts were doing exactly what I do when I am setting up an art project for young children.
They gave each kid a defined space.
They provided individual materials.
They kept it short.
They used the environment to set the kids up for success.

prepare the space → simplify the choices → step back.

I’ve used that method for years now, and it always works.

THE COOKIE STATION SETUP:

Here’s what you’re going to do:

Want the full setup? The rest is for my paid subs…

Here’s exactly what I use, how I organize it by age, and the checklist I come back to every year

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