
SOMETHING PLAYFUL BLOG
Real stories, gentle guidance + small shifts to help you find calm in the middle of it all.
Welcome to the space where we talk about what parenting really looks like. The messy moments. The funny ones. The ones that make you question everything you thought you knew. Here, you’ll find reflections, essays, and practical tools to help you raise connected, curious kids (and feel a little more grounded yourself along the way). No perfection. No guilt. Just real-life parenting.
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Maybe a “Good Day” at School Isn’t What You Think
From preschool pickup to college drop-off, this part hasn’t changed.
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Beach Survival Guide for Moms Who Want to Sit Down This Summer (Even with little kids.)
You don’t need to sweat the beach with kids. You need smart systems, durable gear, and some surprisingly simple play tools.
How to Set Up Long Lasting Potion Play
creating childhood memories/ what they're learning/ why it's more than just "keeping them busy"
When Others Question Your Child's Play Time
Permission granted NOT to sign up for that extra enrichment- Your kids are developing the skills they need through simple, unstructured play, so you can let out the breath you are holding.
Build Your Child's Confidence and Executive Function Skills With Paper and Glue
How a simple collage can build executive function/ our favorite collage materials that are probable in your recycle bin/ an easy, no-glue option/ a tip for connection
How to Respond When Others Question Your Child's Play Time
Your child isn't just playing—they're building their brain in ways that matter most. Read this post to learn how to respond when others question this essential part of childhood.
How to Set Up a Simple Outdoor Tinkerspace for Creative Summer Play
Tip on how to start small and keep it simple, along with ideas for materials to include. Create a magical space for your kids to play.
5-Minute Sensory Fun: How to Make Soap Foam for Indoor Playtime - Keep Kids Engaged and Entertained All Winter Long
Discover the magic of soap foam with this easy recipe and how-to guide. Keep kids of all ages entertained with this versatile and non-messy sensory material. Perfect for indoor playtime during the cold winter months or for a relaxing bathtime experience.
Breaking Free from the "Look, Mommy!" Loop: Building Independent Play Skills
If you have a child who constantly seeks attention and feedback, you might think they’ll never play independently. Try these simple tips…
5 Ways to Play with Your Toddler Now to Lay the Foundation for Independent Play Later
5 simple strategies to encourage independent play for toddlers, helping them build confidence and creativity while giving you some much-needed me-time. Learn how to foster independence with easy-to-implement tips.
Nurturing Self-Directed Play: How to Inspire Your Child's Independence
Learn how to nurture your child's self-directed play with these practical strategies. From observing their interests to creating engaging play invitations, discover how to support your 2-8 year old's independent play skills at home and outdoors.
Cornstarch and Water for Easy Sensory Play
Oobleck is great for kids because it provides a hands-on sensory experience that encourages exploration of non-Newtonian fluids, fostering curiosity and fine motor skills development. Find out the details here.
Fostering Trust Through Independent Play
As a fellow parent and a play expert, I've learned that one of the most valuable gifts we can give our children (and ourselves) is the freedom to play independently. This not only sparks their creativity and decision-making skills but also builds their confidence and trust in their own abilities.
8 Fun & Easy Spring Activities for Kids and Tired Parents
Looking for some simple, engaging outdoor activities to bridge the post-nap to dinner gap?
Turning Boredom into Play: Easy Ways to Spark Your Child's Creativity
When your child complains of boredom, it's not a lack of ideas, but rather a need for skills, resources, confidence, and clear play boundaries. Try these tips!
Rough & Tumble Play: Why It's Vital for Kids and How to Guide It Safely
Research shows that rough-and-tumble play helps kids learn to regulate and manage emotions… How to manage when things get too rough.
Is Your Child Ready for a Successful Quiet Time Today?
Have you ever noticed that despite a solid routine, there are just some days when you know your child is not going to have a successful quiet time? There’s a good reason and it is completely solvable.
Hi! I’m Lizzie Assa, and I’m not here to fix your kid.
Parenting strategist, educator + mom
I’m here to help you feel better while you raise them.
I’m a parenting strategist, educator, and mom of three big kids who were once little and loud and made me question everything. Now I help parents of kids under 12 do it differently. Not perfectly. Just with more clarity, more connection, and way less second-guessing.

THE PLAY SHOP YOU’VE BEEN SEARCHING FOR
My favorite toys, art supplies, storage hacks, and travel must-haves—all in one place.
Over the years, I’ve tested more toys, activities, and playroom setups than I can count. These are the ones that actually last—the ones your kids will come back to again and again. From gifts for ages 1–12 to water play essentials, creative art supplies, travel gear, and smart storage finds, these curated favorites help you bring more ease (and joy) to everyday play.