
SOMETHING PLAYFUL BLOG
Real stories, gentle guidance + small shifts to help you find calm in the middle of it all.
Welcome to the space where we talk about what parenting really looks like. The messy moments. The funny ones. The ones that make you question everything you thought you knew. Here, you’ll find reflections, essays, and practical tools to help you raise connected, curious kids (and feel a little more grounded yourself along the way). No perfection. No guilt. Just real-life parenting.
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Maybe a “Good Day” at School Isn’t What You Think
From preschool pickup to college drop-off, this part hasn’t changed.
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Nurturing Self-Directed Play: How to Inspire Your Child's Independence
Learn how to nurture your child's self-directed play with these practical strategies. From observing their interests to creating engaging play invitations, discover how to support your 2-8 year old's independent play skills at home and outdoors.
Turning Boredom into Play: Easy Ways to Spark Your Child's Creativity
When your child complains of boredom, it's not a lack of ideas, but rather a need for skills, resources, confidence, and clear play boundaries. Try these tips!
Rough & Tumble Play: Why It's Vital for Kids and How to Guide It Safely
Research shows that rough-and-tumble play helps kids learn to regulate and manage emotions… How to manage when things get too rough.
Is Your Child Ready for a Successful Quiet Time Today?
Have you ever noticed that despite a solid routine, there are just some days when you know your child is not going to have a successful quiet time? There’s a good reason and it is completely solvable.
Why You Should Take Your Toys Out of the Playroom
Guess what happens when you take a toy OUT of your playroom and IN to the spotlight?
3 Simple Toys to Enhance Your Toddler's Emotional and Social Growth - Tips You Need!
If you have a toddler, you know their emotions can be a whirlwind. As parents, it's our job to guide them through this complex emotional landscape. Surprisingly, some of the most effective tools for this task are toys you probably already have at home. In this blog post, we'll explore how playdough, stuffed animals, and markers and paper can be transformed into instruments of social and emotional growth for your toddler.
6 Essential Tips for Creating a Safe Independent Play Space for Your Child
You finally got them to play independently, and now you’re worried about whether or not it’s safe to let them play independently!
Revitalize Playtime: 3 Expert Strategies to Get Your Kids Playing With Their Toys
Your child's eyes sparkled with every gift they unwrapped this Christmas, but now, those same toys are gathering dust in the corner. Before frustration sets in, take a deep breath. We’ve got you covered with a few effective strategies to transition from toy overload to productive independent play.
Turning Busy Days into Playful Moments: Toddler-Friendly Tips for the Holidays
How to turn your whining toddler into a playful toddler when you are hustling to get it all done.
How to Use Narration to Boost Your Child’s Independent Play Skills
Sometimes when we ask questions while our kids are busy at play, we unintentionally insert our own ideas and the magic of independent play doesn't fully come to life. Here’s what you can do instead!
Getting Messy: How Indoor Messy Play Supports Healthy Child Development and 5 Tips for Managing the Aftermath
Getting messy is vital to healthy child development. As the weather gets colder, and we can’t take the mess outside, I want to make sure you feel prepared to get messy inside AND deal with the aftermath.
MESSY PLAY
Don’t shy away from messy play! Here are some tips, tricks, and ideas to encourage messy play that also ensures your house and resources don’t suffer.
Hi! I’m Lizzie Assa, and I’m not here to fix your kid.
Parenting strategist, educator + mom
I’m here to help you feel better while you raise them.
I’m a parenting strategist, educator, and mom of three big kids who were once little and loud and made me question everything. Now I help parents of kids under 12 do it differently. Not perfectly. Just with more clarity, more connection, and way less second-guessing.

THE PLAY SHOP YOU’VE BEEN SEARCHING FOR
My favorite toys, art supplies, storage hacks, and travel must-haves—all in one place.
Over the years, I’ve tested more toys, activities, and playroom setups than I can count. These are the ones that actually last—the ones your kids will come back to again and again. From gifts for ages 1–12 to water play essentials, creative art supplies, travel gear, and smart storage finds, these curated favorites help you bring more ease (and joy) to everyday play.