SOMETHING PLAYFUL BLOGReal stories, gentle guidance + small shifts to help you find calm in the middle of it all.
Welcome to the space where we talk about what parenting really looks like. The messy moments. The funny ones. The ones that make you question everything you thought you knew. Here, you’ll find reflections, essays, and practical tools to help you raise connected, curious kids (and feel a little more grounded yourself along the way). No perfection. No guilt. Just real-life parenting.
A READ YOU CAN't miss:Maybe a “Good Day” at School Isn’t What You Think
From preschool pickup to college drop-off, this part hasn’t changed.
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Don’t Turn the Car Around: Why holding back is sometimes the most supportive parenting move you can make.
Rescuing them from discomfort also robs them of resilience.
The Ultimate Back-to-School Survival Guide for Moms Who Want to Stay Sane This September.
Because ripped backpacks, untouched lunches, and mystery leaks don’t need to be part of your story.
School Readiness Isn’t Reciting the Alphabet
…It’s being able to handle a “no” at the bakery.
Stop Explaining the Fish
Why stepping back is the parenting move no one talks about (but every child needs)
How to Actually Enjoy Vacation With Kids (Yes, Even Little Ones)
It won’t be perfect or tantrum-free, but if you play your cards right, it can be very enjoyable. Not because you have the perfect family, but because you’ve found what actually works for your imperfect family.
You Don’t Have to Recreate a 90's Summer- let go of the pressure and keep the good stuff
Why trying too hard backfires/ loose routines/ screens are not the enemy/ ways to deal with boredom/ easy summer play ideas
We Didn’t Homeschool, But We Did This Instead.
An Unbusy Childhood/ We Said No So Our Kids Could Rest/ Birthday Party Boundaries/ Quiet Time/ Open Doors and Messy Floors
How to Respond When Others Question Your Child's Play Time
Your child isn't just playing—they're building their brain in ways that matter most. Read this post to learn how to respond when others question this essential part of childhood.
From Chaos to Cooperation: 4 Ways to Get Your Kids to Listen Without Losing Your Mind
Tired of threats and bribes that don't work? Discover four practical strategies to get your children to cooperate without the power struggles. Learn how connecting, respecting their time, involving them in decisions, and seeing things through their eyes can transform your daily parenting struggles into moments of connection.
Cornstarch and Water for Easy Sensory Play
Oobleck is great for kids because it provides a hands-on sensory experience that encourages exploration of non-Newtonian fluids, fostering curiosity and fine motor skills development. Find out the details here.
Birthday Party Survival Guide for Parents of Preschoolers
Tips for navigating birthday parties and the ultimate birthday party gift guide by age
5 Chores Your Kids Can Start Doing Today
Ever wondered what kind of chores are meant for your child’s age? Check out today’s post for a breakdown on all things chores!
Your Ultimate Checklist: How to Prepare for Kid-Friendly Travel
Traveling with kids? This post is for you.
How Do Children Use Play Silks?
How many ways can you use a play silk? Dust off those play silks and watch your child’s independent play explode!
Stress-Free Holiday Cookie Decorating
A holiday cookie decorating hack to last you all year long.
Halloween Rice Krispie Treats Simplified
Simple spooky treats for Halloween. Tips on how to decorate without the fuss.
Back to School Roundup
I scoured the internet for everything you’ll need (and want) to send the kids back to school in style
Best Kids' Lunchboxes for Back to School: Side-by-Side Comparison
A side by side comparison of our favorite lunch boxes for back to school
Hi! I’m Lizzie Assa, and I’m not here to fix your kid.
Parenting strategist, educator + momI’m here to help you feel better while you raise them.
I’m a parenting strategist, educator, and mom of three big kids who were once little and loud and made me question everything. Now I help parents of kids under 12 do it differently. Not perfectly. Just with more clarity, more connection, and way less second-guessing.
THE PLAY SHOP YOU’VE BEEN SEARCHING FORMy favorite toys, art supplies, storage hacks, and travel must-haves—all in one place.
Over the years, I’ve tested more toys, activities, and playroom setups than I can count. These are the ones that actually last—the ones your kids will come back to again and again. From gifts for ages 1–12 to water play essentials, creative art supplies, travel gear, and smart storage finds, these curated favorites help you bring more ease (and joy) to everyday play.